tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-428567420726563887.post1837073182755165670..comments2023-03-26T02:43:36.746-05:00Comments on Darwin Shrugged: Well, If I Were You ...Denise K.http://www.blogger.com/profile/04443889956145021043noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-428567420726563887.post-31428185965886175292015-12-03T20:19:37.716-06:002015-12-03T20:19:37.716-06:00Thanks. I believe all families have some level of...Thanks. I believe all families have some level of drama, I do. But I'm not a fan of pity parties or of thinking you know how someone feels when you cannot possibly know. Hope you have a smooth holiday season. ;)Denise K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04443889956145021043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-428567420726563887.post-11217477250785646332015-12-03T13:27:44.614-06:002015-12-03T13:27:44.614-06:00Wow! Very interesting topic. We have a lot more ...Wow! Very interesting topic. We have a lot more in common than just our love of cats. I have a family that is all over the place too. I was just telling Melissa how a soap opera plot would work good off my family. I also get very frustrated when people tell me to get over a mood. My ex did it all the time but my mom is the worst with her "get over your pity party" or "are we having a pity party today". But when she is upset or down, she expects everyone to drop what they are doing and be there for her. I'm not saying I don't do it. But there have been times when I wanted to say her own words back to her. I won't bore you with any more. I just thought I would say you are not alone with these topics.Janinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14462641875046092313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-428567420726563887.post-52388236043858257472015-12-03T10:35:59.885-06:002015-12-03T10:35:59.885-06:00I realized that when I was writing this. I think ...I realized that when I was writing this. I think I struggle because I like thinks to be black and white but judgment isn't. We have to make assessments. I just need to remind myself to keep mine from being too surface. And I hope your relationship "stuff" calms down -- I hate that you're dealing with that.Denise K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04443889956145021043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-428567420726563887.post-13104681173347143982015-12-03T10:34:33.715-06:002015-12-03T10:34:33.715-06:00Thank you!!Thank you!!Denise K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04443889956145021043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-428567420726563887.post-88094547257981653182015-12-03T10:19:25.177-06:002015-12-03T10:19:25.177-06:00I think it's hard not to judge people. It'...I think it's hard not to judge people. It's what helps us to form opinions and keep ourselves "safe" from people who we feel might not be someone we want in our lives. I'm also a big hypocrite on that. I tell myself, "don't judge" but I do it anyway! I think I'm getting better about it, practicing more tolerance, but after what I've gone through this year with some of the relationships I've surrounded myself with, I think I need to be more cautious and a little more judgy, with certain things. This post made me think, and I didn't feel pressured to. :)Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01806491456756831867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-428567420726563887.post-28450923480865537872015-12-03T09:35:24.730-06:002015-12-03T09:35:24.730-06:00Great post and such a thought-provoking topic. I l...Great post and such a thought-provoking topic. I like your advice!Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06488832373580617482noreply@blogger.com